What we must wait and work for, we learn to respect. But when everything comes easily, without effort or boundaries, we often grow up feeling entitled; believing we deserve whatever we want, whenever we want it. That sense of entitlement quietly becomes a recipe for lifelong disappointment and heartache.

Some argue that discipline stifles creativity. But the truth is quite the opposite. Discipline gives creativity direction. It is those who learn to work within structure, boundaries, and rules who are able to build, sustain, and see their dreams truly flourish. Chaos does not produce greatness, order does.

Those who learn obedience early in life often develop something far more valuable later on: sensitivity to God. Obedience trains the heart to listen, to submit, and to discern right from wrong. It lays the foundation for wisdom, humility, and longevity.

Parents, if you truly love your child, there are three essential lessons you must teach them:

1) Every relationship has boundaries.
When someone says no to your advances, your advice, your influence, or your way of life; respect it. Honor their limits. Learn when to step back. Boundaries protect relationships and preserve dignity.

2) Life is built on rules.
Rules are not there to oppress us; they exist to protect us. Break them carelessly, and sooner or later, they will break you through consequences, regret, or loss.

3) Obedience has life-altering consequences.
It can lengthen your life or shorten it. If that sounds extreme, take a moment to reflect. Many lives are cut short not by accident, but by repeated disobedience, poor choices, and ignored wisdom.

The purpose of teaching obedience is not control. it is love. Scripture makes this clear in the Book of Ephesians 6:3:
“If you honor your father and mother, things will go well with thee, and you will have a long life on the earth.”

This is not just a command, it is a promise.

So parents, guardians, mentors, ask yourself honestly:
If obedience leads to well-being and long life, and you love your child, how can you do anything less than teach them?

Think about it.

God bless.